I don’t want to be sappy, but sometimes I can’t help it. When I think about Myra — my friend for over 25 years, a former roommate, a sister and twin — I sometimes get choked up. I’d tell you more, but then I may have to find my box of tissues, so let’s skip the details of why she is an awesome human being and special to me.
Anyhooooo, she recently started a blog, cleverly titled Eat, Drink, and Be Myra (I came up with the name, so of course I think it’s clever – ha!), so this weekend, as part of her birthday outing, we did a shoot for her new business venture.
The shoot was sandwiched between giggles, eating, catching up, and eating again… our usual activities.
This weekend, I met with Rebecca, Frank, and their kids at a beloved area of San Francisco: Ghirardelli Square. The H Family have had photoshoots before, every year in fact, but never a Lifestyle shoot. So when we stopped for pizza at the start of the shoot, the kids — Kyle, Kelly and Kayden — were a little stunned. heh heh.
When tummies were full, they walked around the city, enjoyed the view of the Golden Gate Bridge, and sat in the sun to watch the beautiful bay rippling with sailboats and swimmers. Then we finished the shoot with scoops of homemade ice cream. Isn’t Lifestyle Photography cool?
By the way, this shoot marked a very important chapter for the H Family that is worth noting: Kyle just graduated from High School and will be headed off to College! I am so honored to capture this slice of their family’s life. What a big milestone!
Q: What do you do when your cousin gets a rockin’ haircut and visits you from the East Coast?
A: You dress her up in your clothes and take her out for a mini styled session!
Q: What do you do when you have only 1 hour for the entire shoot, including drive time, and the location you chose already has a professional photoshoot in session?
A: Shoot in the adjacent cemetery, of course!
I know, I know… that sounds horrifying, but it wasn’t. I promise! Crystal was game for anything as having a Styled Shoot was completely foreign to her, so everything we did was fun to her. (What an awesome model to have… one who is gorgeous, fun, funny, humble AND appreciative!)
We were also respectful of the location and tread quietly around the paths. Crystal even said “thank you” to the cemetery when we left. Now if that isn’t
a little weird creepy silly respectful, then I don’t know what is! ;) Love you, Crystal!!! <3
To be included in a publication that only accepts gorgeous, polished imagery is such an honor! I’ve been enjoying Reverie Gallery for some time now, so this is especially exciting. If you haven’t seen them yet, you must take a look.
All I have to say is: WOW.
It is a long article (WHOOOPPEEEE!!!), so to view the entire collection of images or read the bride’s story at the end of the article, click here to go directly to Reverie Gallery.
Sometimes life throws you curveballs. You go about your day and suddenly, something unexpected happens and you’re forced to sink or swim. Afterwards, you can choose to reflect on what happened and learn from it, or you can push it into the deep recesses of your mind and go on your merry way.
This Father’s Day weekend, my father-in-law was in the hospital, needed emergency surgery and had to be in the ICU. It was not only stressful and caused us to worry, but for me, it also revived a frightening memory of when I was at the hospital with my father who passed away. No way could this happen to both my dads!
Today, I feel incredibly thankful for his daily recovery, good medical care at the hospital, and our ability to be with him during this time.
I learned from the two experiences that I am not a bystander when a loved one is in the hospital. I make sure I understand the process and communicate with the doctors. I also learned that when you think there is nothing you can do, there is a power in prayers and being surrounded by loved ones.
This brings me to this weekend’s family shoot. I have known The C Family for about two decades. (I had their shoot on my calendar for many months and decided not to tell them about my father-in-law until right before we were leaving as to not worry them.) As expected, our time together was a breath of fresh air. Watching Marissa coloring with her mom in the warm breeze, Sam cuddling with her puppy, Alex and his father racing each other, and the kids catching bubbles IN THEIR MOUTHS reminded me that life, though rough at times, is about togetherness and that happiness, when stripped down, is made up of “small” things.
I love this family. I am so lucky to call them my friends. And I hope that when things get busy and life throws me more curveballs, I will remember to take a page from their book… and eat bubbles.
If you are a parent, you undoubtedly know what I mean when I say a lot can go wrong when you have a toddler, like sleep schedules, disinterest in staying still, and injuries from just learning to walk. Add to that, a location you are determined to have for your shoot, but is reserved all day for a wedding — well, you are now adding a measure of risk to an already delicate situation.
So when I tell you that all the stars aligned for this weekend’s Lifestyle Family Photography session, I mean it! We ended up hedging our bets with the location by switching the shoot to early morning. The morning lended us a beautiful white light and also ensured that we had the location to ourselves (and that we wouldn’t get kicked out)! Jacob, who usually wakes super early, decided to sleep in the morning of the shoot, but did wonderfully! And his usual disinterest of a park after 15 minutes was nowhere to be seen.
This is what a toddler shoot looks like when all the stars align…
The first time I met this family, I found out I was allergic to bee stings. That was not the kind of buzzing excitement I was aiming for, but their shoot turned out nicely. For their second shoot, which was this past weekend, I am relieved to announce that there weren’t any bees in sight!
Some of my favorite family photos of David and Annie and their boys, Alton and Caden, are of them walking amongst the trees. You can see one of these shots at the end of this post.
Why is it one of my faves?
~ Mature trees have such interesting and unique shapes, so they can provide great texture to an image.
~ They can also block the direct sunlight, so you get a softer light on days the sun is blazing like it was this weekend.
~ There is a severe drought in California, which is terrible, but I gotta say… photographically, the dried grass and dirt ground provided terrific reflected light and added an airy, romantic quality to the scene. Who knew a drought could be beautiful?!!
~ Finally, the family was very relaxed and comfortable, so altogether with what I mentioned above, the image is one I keep coming back to.
As a parent, a former teacher, and someone who has always loved little people, I think children are…in one word, incredible. They learn at amazing speeds and absorb everything. They develop unique personalities from the time they are babies. And unlike adults, they always know what’s important: eat, sleep, play, love, poop.
So with that said, I have a fun little story to tell you about my weekend’s Lifestyle Family Photography session with Josie and her parents, Vivian and Freddy. It’s told through the eyes of a little one. Enjoy!
WHEN I GROW UP…
I will be taller.
I will have the World in my hands.
My parents will still be my Protectors and be by my side, even when they’re not.
My dad will always be the first man I’ve ever loved.
I will have faith — in myself.
I will continue to be an independent thinker. And a do-er! I will stay brave and do what I believe is right, even if it’s not the most popular view.
I will let you know if I like something.
And squash the things I do not like, such as negativity.
I will always remember that my mom is the most important person in my life. The one who brought me into this World.
The one who will always welcome me with open arms and a full heart.
Above all else, I will laugh. I will laugh hard! And often… with the people whom I love.
That’s what life is all about, right?!!
And of course I will always remember my photographer, Annie.
[If you want to see Josie’s first shoot with me back in 2012, here is The Best Medicine.]
Alright, so Connor isn’t really THE Hungry Caterpillar from the famous children’s book by Eric Carle, but there were similarities, like they’re both cute, they both have little round bodies, and they both eat everything in their way!
This shoot was for Connor who is turning one year old next week. His proud parents are Chris and Connie, who have San Francisco close to their hearts because they grew up here and still live here now. They even work here… in the same place actually! In fact, here’s a fun fact: Chris is a doctor and Connie is a registered nurse at the same hospital where I gave birth to my three monkeys!
Check out this San Francisco Lifestyle Family Photography session of a doctor, a nurse and the cutest hungry caterpillar in a cool, urban playground.
See what I mean?!!
Oh no, not Snoopy!
Disclaimer: No playground equipment or animals (ie, Snoopy) were harmed during the photoshoot. (Connor is teething!)
Twelve month old Bennett is enamored with his mom. And for good reason. She is all that and a bag of chips! (I used to work at Frito-Lay, so I can say that and mean it. Yummo. Chips!)
Bennett’s love for his mother, Jennifer, was apparent throughout their South Bay Lifestyle Family Photography session from the way he called out “mama mama” ever so sweetly whenever she left the room and would give her THE BIGGEST hugs whenever she was close enough!
Below is a peek into the life of Jennifer, Baelson, Lucy (the furry big sister) and Bennett. I’m sure you’ll adore them as much as I do.